Modernize codebase: C++17, remove Tor v2, add embedded Tor scaffold, IBD speedups

- Replace ~290 BOOST_FOREACH with C++11 range-for across 41+ files
- Replace boost::assign::map_list_of with C++11 brace initialization
- Remove PAIRTYPE macro (no longer needed without BOOST_FOREACH)
- Guard OpenSSL locking callbacks for 3.x (no-ops in >= 1.1.0)
- Fix Qt deprecated APIs for Qt6 compat (QStyleOptionViewItemV4, setResizeMode)
- Add openssl_compat.h version string wrapper
- Enable C++17 in makefile.unix and triangles-qt.pro

- Delete 163 dead Tor v2 source files (~150K lines removed)
- Add embedded Tor scaffold (tor_embedded.h/cpp) using tor_api.h
- Add build-libtor.sh helper and CODEX-TOR-GUIDE.md
- Update makefile.unix and .pro with USE_TOR_EMBEDDED optional flag
- Fallback to external tor_process when not compiled with libtor

- IBD pipeline refill: 100 -> 1000 blocks
- Send/recv buffer limits: unlimited -> 100MB/32MB
- Orphan block cap: unlimited -> 750 with random eviction
- Socket poll: 10ms -> 1ms during IBD
- Message handler sleep: 10ms -> 1ms during IBD
- Stall detection timeout: 5s -> 2s

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/rpcsmessage.cpp

@@ -301,7 +301,7 @@ Value smsglocalkeys(const Array& params, bool fHelp)
     if (mode == "wallet")
     {
         uint32_t nKeys = 0;
-        BOOST_FOREACH(const PAIRTYPE(CTxDestination, std::string)& entry, pwalletMain->mapAddressBook)
+        for (const auto& entry : pwalletMain->mapAddressBook)
         {
             if (!IsMine(*pwalletMain, entry.first))
                 continue;